Be the Change

: All You Need is Love

The Beatles made it famous almost 50 years ago, and it still rings so true “All You Need is Love”. Sounds so simple right? Then why aren’t more people in love with themselves. I’m not talking about vanity or thinking you’re ‘better than’, but a deep down knowledge that you’re a wonderful being, that you have purpose and a sincere belief in oneself?

The main component of self esteem is your deeply held belief about yourself. Start raising your belief, every morning look yourself deeply into your eyes and say, I deeply love you. Every night before you go to bed, take another look and tell yourself what you’re grateful for today, and tell yourself, ‘You’re Enough, You’re Good, and I love you’! The only limits you have are the limits you’ve created within. Stop living defeated and start living triumphant.

Become you, be the observer of your own life – step outside your self and learn to create your life from the perspective of an observer. Are you afraid of change? It is the only constant in life – you should embrace it as it will make life ultimately easier. You can’t drag your heels through life and expect to move forward and grow. Believe in yourself and be open to change! Never doubt yourself! If you feel self doubt sneaking into your consciousness… SNAP OUT OF IT, and ask yourself what brought that on, and how you’ll maneuver clear of it in the future. All feelings, start with a belief – so look at what you believe and make changes where necessary. Like any feeling, they need a foundation. If you don’t have practical experience succeeding, your mind may need some practical reassurance – that’s where you need to do the work and make steps to ensure you can make improvements so you’re not afraid of change. Otherwise you won’t believe in yourself. You need to reassure your mind that you’re not only able to achieve, but put it into practice. Doubt can keep you from being active in life, and it’s a barrier to change – remove the negative emotion behind the belief and SNAP out of IT! Positive affirmations are a great tool to help remove the emotion behind beliefs.

: Blossom in the World

When does a man truly start living? When he’s faced with death. It’s a sad statement, that people sometimes wait until it’s too late to start living. I’m reminded of the country song ‘Live Like You Were Dying’ from Tim McGraw. Don’t wait until your life is almost over to experience it! Live to your potential & become who you are meant to be. The human spirit needs to feel connected. What do you belong to? Whether it’s a church group, an AA fellowship, a group of National Democrats, a group on LinkedIn, or any group of like minded people, you need to feel connected. It’s one of our primary traits and it starts at a deep level. We have the need to contribute to our communities and society in our own unique way.

Right now you have all the tools at your disposal to contribute your talents and passion to citizens of not just your local community, but the global community. We live in an awesome times, with technology bridging the gap, and connecting us to each other world wide. Your job? To believe in yourself and your vision. Develop your inner strength and believe. What the mind of man can concieve, he can acheive. If you don’t have a vision start contemplating what your unique and valuable contribution might be. The world is waiting for your unique talents, we’re waiting for you to stand up and lead. All that’s missing is you!

“Whether you think you can or whether you think you can’t, you’re right.” - Henry Ford

Start right now, today, working and developing your vision, your passion, influence and goals. Start with small goals and write them down, make a list. Over time you’ll find your end goal within reach. Think about and bring about. Stay true to yourself, your vision and abilities and you’ll find your passion aligns with others, collaborate and work as a team to help each other. Give without expecting something in return (give without limits and give often). Do for others, and be grateful for all the wonderful gifts you’ve been given. The power of giving is tremendous and you’ll find it works like a boomerang. Create your vision and keep going to it in your minds eye. Practice being successful and keep working toward your goals. If I can help you outline the steps, please don’t hesitate to get in touch. Stay true, and keep working toward your goal. You’ll get there. Learn to forgive, and be one with the wonderful connectedness of life. Deep down in your soul, you must believe in yourself, if not – you’ll never reach your potential. Most of the people in our world don’t have this belief in themselves. Develop yours and find yourself soaring to new heights. People who have this intense passion for life and belief in themselves will find true meaning and success. There may come a time when you fall short of your goal, and it’s at this time when you will feel like giving up and giving in, you must not – this is a crucial crossroad that will determine your greatness.

Realize your true nature, and become the change you expect in the world. Approach your identity as fluid, in constant state of change. Your body is renewed every 60 – 120 days, with billions of new cells, your skin is totally new every month, so renew your mind, think up, snap out of your old logic, think of where you want to be, make the changes. Envision your life from the perspective of an outsider. Update your notion about the world, be grateful for your life, and watch the changes take place.

Get in touch or leave a comment below. I’m here to help with advice and help goal setting as you go on the road. Best Journeys!